The Hidden Cost Of Forcing Kids to Compete
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

The Hidden Cost Of Forcing Kids to Compete

Teamwork and resilience are important values to teach our child, but excessive pressure to compete can lead to anxiety and fear of failure. Read on to learn the balance between encouragement and competition so our child feels seen and understood, and has the power to succeed in ways we may not realize. Conscious, positive parenting teaches us to lean in, with compassion.

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The Challenges of Permissive Parenting
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

The Challenges of Permissive Parenting

Permissive parenting: Parenting without clear limits and boundaries, low expectations and low demands, can yield a parenting style rife with challenges and behavioral struggles. Read on to learn how to move from permissive to authoritative parenting.

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Are Your Expectations Realistic?
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Are Your Expectations Realistic?

By embracing child development and behavior management strategies that are appropriate for their age and stage in their development, we can replace rigidity and too high or too low expectations with flexibility and connection: a parenting combination that can become a journey of growth for both parent and child.

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Trusting Our Child As They Face Challenges
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Trusting Our Child As They Face Challenges

Trust is a fundamental aspect of parenting. It tells our child, “I trust you to tackle hard things, to face challenges that will help your grow, to trust yourself and that failure is not something to be feared, but to be learned from.” Read on to learn more about the importance of trust in conscious, positive parenting.

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 Being In Control Without Being Controlling
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Being In Control Without Being Controlling

Our role in parenting isn’t to clear every obstacle, but to teach and cheer them on as they navigate their path and learn. We can remind ourselves: we’re aiming for progress over perfection, and connection over control. When we give up being controlling, we gain control as an effective parent leader. Controlling our child does not create better child behavior management.

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Parenting: When We’re Consistently Inconsistent
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Parenting: When We’re Consistently Inconsistent

When we are consistently inconsistent in our parenting, we continue using techniques that are ineffective and yet we often expect different results. Read on to learn how to change what’s not working and how to bring in new techniques that work

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Growing Our Boys Authenticity
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Growing Our Boys Authenticity

Stereotypes perpetuate images that can invalidate and detract our sons true passion and love. As a conscious, positive parent, we can replace old harmful beliefs with true acceptance of our child’s interests and embrace them, so they can live up to their true self.

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  Mantras Help Us Parent Better
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Mantras Help Us Parent Better

A simple repetitive phrase; a mantra or word, can help us calm our nervous system and parent from a place of calmness and strength.

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Looking For the Good Helps Us Parent Better
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Looking For the Good Helps Us Parent Better

It's noticing and appreciating the small things that helps us appreciate the good that's already there. 

Frustration and anger in parenting is common, and is made better when we pause and notice what is going well. Positive, conscious parenting includes seeing the good that is already there. Read on to learn more.

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Overparenting and Underparenting
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Overparenting and Underparenting

Overparenting and controlling our child creates great resistance and pushback. We can thoughtfully change this and consciously underparent instead.

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Our Child Can Learn To Make Good Decisions, If We Let Them
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Our Child Can Learn To Make Good Decisions, If We Let Them

Children learn how to make good decisions by being given opportunities and being allowed to make decisions. Read on to learn the importance of decision making in a child's life, and how to foster this development and life skill, even at two years old.

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The Power of Pausing In Parenting
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

The Power of Pausing In Parenting

When we take time to pause, we give ourselves a chance to respond rather than react to our child in a more calm, collected way, which helps teach them how to better self regulate. Read on to learn more.

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Travel Tips For A Calmer, Saner Trip With Your Family
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Travel Tips For A Calmer, Saner Trip With Your Family

Traveling with one child is hard. Traveling with more than one is even harder. Whether you have a baby, big kid or ages in between, we need calm patience, preparedness and strategies to make travel saner and easier. Read this blog for important and useful tips in making your summer travel a heck of a lot easier.

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Your Needs As A Parent Matters
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Your Needs As A Parent Matters

Demanding, loud, relentless kids are so hard to parent day in and day out. Parental burnout is real. How we show up makes a difference, and self care lets us be this more effective, better parent.

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Taming Tantrums In 8 Steps
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Taming Tantrums In 8 Steps

Tantrums are so hard to deal with. Our child is full of strong emotions with little coping skills. Read on to learn how to tame tantrums and how to prevent them from recurring.

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Anxiety Affects Our Parenting
Debbie Kravitz Debbie Kravitz

Anxiety Affects Our Parenting

Parental anxiety and the transference of anxiety from parent to child, is a common occurrence in parenting. Read on to learn more.

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